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Cover of Britt Marie Was Here

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

Convenience Store Woman by Sayak Murata

Britt-Marie Was Here by Fredrik Backman

September 18, 2018

Dear Mr. Hemingway,

I feel so lucky to have connected with so many characters on my reading adventures. Characters come and go as fast as books are finished and new ones started. Every now and then though, I come across someone in a book that I can’t stop wondering about long after I’ve finished reading their story. How are they doing? What have they been up to? I want to just pick up the phone and give them a quick call.

I share with you today, three wonderful ladies who have struggled to navigate life in a society that doesn’t always embrace the unique and quirky.  The one thing these gals have in common is that they are perceived as misfits to themselves and the people around them. Their individual journeys are all rocky in their own way.  They are inspiring and lovable and I hope you adore them as much as I do. Mr. Hemingway, I would like to introduce to you…………..Keiko, Eleanor and Britt-Marie.

Keiko Furukura is a 36 year old woman from Convenience Store Woman by Sayak Murata.  Keiko has worked at the Convenience store in Japan since she was 18 years old.  She carries out her days mimicking her co- workers mannerisms and lingo and thrives on the predictability of her day scripted out in the store’s written manual.  She even goes as far as consuming the majority of her food intake from this particular store only. She is literally, “one with the store”. Keiko is a dependable and hard worker who lives an independent life.  She is beyond socially awkward, has very few friends, zero interest in any type of romantic relationship, has no advanced goals and finds all of her joy only… you guessed it, at the convenience store. Even though Keiko is content with her life, the people around her find it socially appalling.

My next gal pal is Eleanor Oliphant from Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman. Eleanor is a young girl who lives in an apartment, works a Monday-Friday office job and enjoys her weekend routine of vodka and pizza in her Glasgow flat.  Eleanor’s social behavior makes the people around her anything but comfortable. She has no friends and only a literal understanding of the world around her. As her extremely dark past continues to haunt her, Eleanor lives her life on autopilot until one day, she decides she wants more.

Lastly, there is the lovely Britt-Marie from Britt-Marie Was Here by Fredrik Backman.  Britt-Marie is a 63 year old woman who leaves her cheating husband to live on her own in a small town in Sweden called Borg.  Her OCD, atypical social skills, lack of humor and over the top cleaning behaviors make Britt-Marie supremely odd to the people around her.  In Borg, Britt-Marie lives an unfamiliar life running the small town’s dying recreational center while forming surprising relationships with the new people around her.  Living by herself as an independent woman for the first time allows her to finally process the sadness from her past and to discover her own self worth. It isn’t a smooth journey, but one that will re-shape her life forever.

I encourage you to read these three books to feel happy, to feel sad, to observe the impact of loneliness, to have compassion and to see the power of love in all shapes and sizes. You can speculate about how these woman came to be, but most people do not want to be defined by their past alone, but by the journey as a whole.  With common themes of loneliness, humor, acceptance and love that float through each of these stories, it is not a chore to chuckle and cry while reading the same page. Once immersed in these three books, any sorrow you will feel will turn to pom poms cheering these ladies on. You will no longer be sitting in the stands watching their lives unfold.  Instead, you will be standing on the turf and rooting them on with all your heart and soul. I mean who doesn’t want an underdog to win??????


Your Biggest Fan,


P.S.  Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine is going to be a movie, Sayaka Murata was selected to be Woman of the Year in 2016 by Vogue Japan and I’m calling Britt-Marie to see if she can come over and get my sons’ white baseball pants cleaned!!!!!!!

*Click here to buy Convenience Store Woman by Sayak Murata*

*Click here to buy Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman*

*Click here to buy Britt-Marie Was Here by Fredrik Backman*

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